Easy To Believe
It’s a common saying – easy to believe. Appearances can be deceiving, even to an experienced performer, which is why experience builds in multiple redundancies. Looked at in one way, an appearance can be deceiving; when looked at in different ways or when different things are looked at concurrently, the ‘deception’ can be revealed. Still, notwithstanding the various fail-safes we use, we are never safe from failing, underscoring the need for robust self-management in addition to skilled performance.
But nothing’s perfect and even robust self-management has its lapses. This is where deception can make an appearance; this appearance is all about deceiving! If it was just a bit of harmless deception, the little ‘white lies’ that are often used to lubricate the wheels of interaction, this post would come to an early conclusion. However, it’s more than that for the ‘lies’ are not as ‘white’ as they might seem.
It’s not just deception; it can also be about self-deception, a combination of deception and delusion. There is evidence that self-deception is resistant to self-correction, in part because we fail to see the need for correction. In this sense we are, as Smoosh tell us, our own lies:
We are so afraid to be ourselves …
We are our own lies…
Pretending that we know is much, much more frequent than knowing that we pretend. There are, however, choices. We don’t know what we don’t know but we can discover what we don’t know through effortful practice. Similarly, we may not know when we are pretending to know but we are not destined to be our own lies.
These are difficult learning paths to navigate – can you find your own way?