No, ‘tis nobler is not using ‘stranded’ in the sense of being marooned or left behind. As you realise, things aren’t always as they seem – you can trust your eyes but not your brain, your memories are revised rather than just retrieved and your beliefs can overpower your knowledge (and new information is often powerless to overcome this). Things seem to be different; things are different from what they seem.
‘tis nobler is using ‘stranded’ in the sense of being composed of strands – threads that are woven to form something bigger and stronger. In the context of experiential learning and behavioural change journeys, the relevance is apparent. Stranded – things are as they are.
In recent posts, ‘tis nobler has unpacked (slightly) the concept of resilience, revealing that there is more to it than people might imagine from simply tossing the word around. And not all of the resilience ‘below the surface’ is necessarily valuable or desirable. What seems to be a single strand is itself composed of smaller strands. How do you make sense of anything if you remain oblivious to the elements that make it what it is?
What might seem to be trite slogans are progressively revealed as fundamental principles. ‘Effort is essential’ was revealed as much more than a catchcry when you burrow down beneath the semantic surface:
This is another example of why effort is essential. Experiential learning and behavioural change can and do present ongoing challenges; both are made more difficult by the subordination of knowledge to belief. The ongoing resistance to new knowledge that is inconsistent with our beliefs may be the single greatest reason why we stand still or go backwards.
And yet all the time we still believe we’re moving forward. Can you believe that?
As you browse the archives, the depth and the detail will coalesce into shapes that suit you (for you know that it is inappropriate and ineffective for any shape to be imposed, however well-intentioned that imposition may be). These guiding shapes and patterns are produced by your effort:
As your journey unfolds, you will learn that you are stranded but you are never stranded. Appreciating the distinction and acting on its implications is a sure sign of progress.